Thoughts to Keep. . .

• The hardest of all is learning to be a well of affection, and not a fountain… to show someone that we love them not when we feel like it, but when they need it.

• A woman’s self esteem rises and falls like a wave… when she hits the bottom, it is a time for emotional housecleaning.

• We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us, they will behave in certain ways… the ways we react and behave when we love someone.

• Men often complain, she is over reacting… and women complain he doesn’t listen.

• The biggest challenge for a woman is to correctly interpret and support a man when he isn’t talking.

• A woman’s sense of self is defined through her feelings.

• Men argue for the right to be free while women argue for the right to be upset. Men want space while women want understanding.

• Never go into a man’s cave or you will be burned by the dragon.

• A woman should not be judged for needing this reassurance… just as a man should not be judged for needing to withdraw.

• Blessed are they who expect nothing… for they shall not be disappointed.